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Added on: 09/28/07 20:11
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We all know it. This business is tough. It can be difficult emotionally and physically for any woman who decides to get involved in escorting.
Whether she tries it, dabbles in it, or makes a career of it, the psychological implications are enormous.
Once in this business, it's like visiting Iran. Your passport is stamped and forever it is known that you've been there. Thus, our personal history has been stamped, and one must consider the consequences of the visit.
We all do what we feel is right for our business. We try to maximize our profits and provide the best service. Afterall, who can argue with that business plan? And we are a business, never mistake that. We simply use what the good Lord gave us to our advantage. And there is nothing wrong with it, and no difference from the man who uses his skills to earn his income.
However, there is still an ethical line that can be drawn in this business. One that we all know is there. For some, 'ethics' is no more than a hazy thought that barely registers on their moral compass. Like a silly fluttering bug that one must wave away. For others, they carefully consider the implications of their actions and how they run their business.
And some good providers just go bad after too long in the business.
In the recent past, I've had the unpleasant experience of dealing with a provider who is dishonest in the most basic sense of the business. She chooses to post photos of someone else in her advertising, claiming that the photos are her own. Now, this is a business decision that she has made. One would think that she would understand that to do such a thing would incur some risk, and therefore, that risk would be weighed and understood and accepted. Hopefully, it would be thought out logically and the conclusion drawn from such thought.
I fully defend the right of any business to advertise as they desire. But when you advertise falsely, you understand that you take on the particular risks that come with such false advertising.
When the provider received some not so stellar reviews concerning the accuracy of her photos, she, shall we say, went berserk, hit the ceiling, got her panties in the proverbial wad. She then proceeded to lash out at any other lady within 10 miles of her, and wrath and vile nature of her victimhood was boundless. She blamed everyone but herself for this woeful situation. She blamed other ladies for sending her 'terrible' clients, she blamed clients for being bastards. She claimed everyone was 'out to get her'. My my.
My response was, "You assumed the risk with posting inaccurate photos. You weighed the profit against the backlash and made your choice. You are not a victim, you are the perpetrator of the problem."
As you can imagine, this did not go over terribly well. Apparently, some feel that being a victim simply means that things don't go your way.
Let me educate you. Being a victim means that you are innocent of any involvement of harm that has been caused you. When you purposely mislead those who seek your business, you are not a victim, your customers are the victims.
Too many men are gentle, kind and polite, too embarassed or generous to speak up to this kind of thing. Or, they simply must protect their privacy and they cannot do anything about it, as this provider has not put it beneath herself to threaten clients.
Her behavior does a great disservice to the women who are honest in their dealings with their clients and associates.
So here is what you do, dear gentlemen. When a provider opens the door and she is obviously not the lady that you expected from the advertised site you visited, politely state that you feel things will not work out, or you have just received a call of great urgency and must leave to take care of the matter. I do not feel you must leave any compensation, given that you were mislead. But more importantly, do your homework before you make your date. If you can, leave a review and be honest. Reviews should be honest. But I understand the fear of the clients from providers who are vindictive and evil.
Go to the local boards (www.theeroticreview.com, www.bigdoggie.net) and check the regional board for her area. Do a 'search' on the provider for, say, 3000 days. You will usually discover discussion about the lady, and other posts, in which the truth can be discovered. You also check the above mentioned boards for reviews on the lady. When you see 1 or more reviews questioning the looks against the ad, a red flag should pop up and beat you severely in the head.
Darlings, I know that your cute, little head often thinks a bit too much for you, but in this, don't set yourself up for disappointment. Especially when you are spending your well-earned dollars.
The ladies that use false advertising tend not to get into posts and discussions, as they do not want to draw too much attention to themselves. However, if you look far enough into it, you will find the truth. Because the clients will step up and speak out, or at least a few of them will.
It's no less that we ladies will do to find out if you are a good boy, or a bad boy. We spend plenty of time trying to research you to make sure you are not a bad or naughty boy that would not be in our best interests to see. So, you should do the same when you visit a lady. Don't you want a wonderful experience?
You can ask your favorite provider if she might know of anything concerning the lady you might want to visit, but as we all know, you must step carefully in that arena. If she is like me, she'll help you find a lady to visit that you would enjoy. If she does, you should thank her accordingly. I'm sure you get my drift.
And that, is how you might find good providers gone bad.
About the author:
A mature and bright lady in the Raleigh, NC area. Enjoys writing and intelligent conversation. Visit her website at http://www.lexyoconnor.com.
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