|
|
|
|
I haven't read blogs on this site for a while - just too busy with living - but today I decided to treat myself to a dose of blogs to get me back to reality. I chuckled as I read accounts from a blogger about his experience with his lip stick stained cock to the more serious articles from guys who had experienced the escort world for the first time to others who spoke of the addictive nature of escorting. Another blogger raised a number of those probing 'why' questions common to us all at some time or another. It got me thinking about punterlink bloggers. Without a doubt we have to be the most interesting people around. Inarguably this site is a crucible of emotions and daily living experiences. It is a place where you will be admonished, praised, comforted and cajoled. It is in short one of the nicest places to be and you can be sure to meet some of the nicest and honest people around. I no longer need to try and justify why I do what I do, because I know that for a short while I can make someone happy who would otherwise have been disconsolate. So I am thrilled to read the stories of joy, drama, frivolity, victory and humour found in these blogs. To all you bloggers out there - well done, and to the punters that sustain us - thank you.
|
Added on: 03/30/06 02:33
Comments (1)
|
|
|
|
I was so enthused after reading a blog from one of our more prolific bloggers on the subject of professionalism and which touched on the topic of personal hygiene and appearance that I was induced to write a blog of my own on the subject of the importance of grooming.
Personally I find that a client who has not attended to the finer aspects of his toiletry, the kiss of death. It is highly unlikely that our meeting will go as smoothly as one in which the client has made an obvious attempt to make a difference. Let me be more specific:
- Trimming down finger and toe nails so that the bed sheets are not torn to shreds and paramedics don't have to be called to attend to uncontrolled bleeding from a leg artery.
- Cleaning up unwanted and obvious superfluous hair. Many times the growth of hair in those dark places grows unchecked and untrimmed while the visible hair on top is meticulously gelled and groomed.
- A clean well scented body with a good aftershave is also a great aphrodisiac and bound to get the meeting off well and will definately go the distance and more.
It is great to snuggle into a nice smelling neck and I haven`t had any compliants from clients when my breasts smell nice either.
- Smart and clean clothes also add a touch of panache to the impression formed within the first few minutes, and although they (the clothes) don't stay on too long it is a pleasure when they are obviously well chosen to see them come off.
- I like to spend a great of time and effort on the items I wear, underwear and outer wear. It is important to me and a compliment to the client.
- Having a nice tasting and smelling mouth is a huge advantage and leads to plently of playing and exploring in that area.
All of the above is about being a professional in a chosen profession, that involves all the senses, isn`t it?
|
Added on: 03/09/06 01:39
Comments (2)
|
|
|
|
A lot is spoken about with regard to the Client/Escourt relationship and I have given this a great deal of thought. Valentines day has also brought up a lot of questions in this regard. It can also be argued that not all `normal' non-working relationships are genuinue and people can be in them to get what they can out of the partnership.
My feelings are that you should leave something of value with whoever you touch in life. For example a nurse or a social worker, or teacher should be in the profession to make a difference. To leave a lasting and good impression on the people that they are committed to. Workers who deal with the elderly should treat their patients with respect, kindness and love. Each person that you meet and deal with in life should be left with a small part of yourself, and a lasting impression. I am not talking about bunny boilers or stalkers, but I am talking about a warm glow and a sense of joy.
The relationship between an Escourt and a Client should be based on kindness, respect, intimacy, and trust. Once those boundaries are established then the sex, laughter, and passion come naturally.
In a world of so much stress and pressure that might seem idealistic, however I think that when you have been through the school of hard knocks it makes sense to relax a bit and have a bit of fun, treat someone well and look after them while you're together and also care about their welfare when you are not together. It is not just a case of `well that`s done and dusted' move onto the next one, neither I hasten to add is it wise to be intrusive but caring is another matter!
|
Added on: 02/19/06 04:46
Comments (0)
|
|
|
|
The demands of the industry we work in are 'twenty-four seven'. I am new to this scene so forgive my naivete. I forgot to put phone onto voicemail last night which allowed a very urgent 'just out of virginity' 20 year to phone me at 4.30am. Yes I hear you saying why didn't you just turn it off, but perhaps it was my curiosity that needed satisfying right then. The lad couldn't believe I was the age I purported to be (younger that is) and that he had only done it once before and money wasn't a problem...and what could I offer. It slowly dawned on me that this guy wanted some dirty telephone chat. Not my business I told him try the right telephone numbers. He said he would phone back - he hasn't. I had to chuckle to myself . Yes I guess the biological demands of our bodies will always seek instant gratification even at 4.30am in the morning when most people are still alseep.
|
Added on: 02/11/06 01:02
Comments (1)
|
|
|
|
It takes the advice from just one well meaning and sincere person to bolster your confidence and shove up your ego ratings. You know who you are so this brief blog entry is for you in addition to my note of thanks. Hope to cross your path someday.
|
Added on: 02/10/06 02:27
Comments (0)
|
|
|
|
This has got to be one of the most daunting jobs I have ever done. I have just started as an independent and don't have an idea on what to expect from my potential clients. I am sure I will pick up a lot of insults - that's the way people are concerning this industry. But I believe there will be in the long far more compliments as I begin to build my client base. I am trying to deal with so many thoughts right now that perhaps the best is put them away right now. I would love to hear from experienced escorts and even first timers like me on this issue.
|
Added on: 02/08/06 03:01
Comments (2)
|
|
|
|
|
|
