I wish life could hold some gaurantees but there aren't any...Only thing that is a gaurantee is someday we all will die....This is something we don't usually think alot about (at least I didn't) until the death of my 16yr old son...It's been 5 long years and the pain is still here in my heart...But alot of my ways have changed...The way I think, act, treat others and the way I live day to day...I am thankful for what I do have, my family especially my 2 beautiful daughters and 6 beautiful grandbabies...I make it a point everyday to tell them how much I love them...I have learned not to hold a grudge when someone does me dirty....When I forgive someone I also forget and never mention it again..I do to others as I would like them to do to me...And most of all I thank God for the time I did have with my angel James...