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Who turns down reverse oral

Funny expression, reverse oral. Sometimes in parlours you have to pay to do it as the girl treats it as an extra and charges accordingly. I usually say you are mssing out babe and smile sweetly.

I was out and about a couple of weeks back, had to stay overnight for work reasons and so was looking for a quick punt. Sometimes I will take a chance in a parlour but I had a couple of numbers for indies in the area I was in and decided to take a chance. I duly fixed myself up, made my way to the ladies' premises etc etc.

Any way, never having asked before, I get to the point of going down on the lady as is my wont and she stops me. You are missing out I say with a cheerful grin, and she replies rather less pleasantly, I don't where you have been last but I don't want chlamydia from you thank you very much.

Most girls are happy to accept oral from a guy and I was quite surprised by this. Unless I had just come from the previous pussy without washing or shaving I would be surprised if I could pass anything on. So had this lady just got a bee in her bonnet? Bear in mind I rarely turn up anything less than very freshly washed and sweet smelling, tho it was pointed out to me as I left, as a Parthian shot, that I could o with a few nostril hairs removing.

Added on: 06/11/06 08:50

Comments


Josephine
06/11/06 18:15
Sounds a rather unusual encounter .. rude to boot too, re your nostrils .. maybe she was ticklish down below?!
PMT?!


Kimberley
06/12/06 05:17
Unless you have stubble, which can be painful, I cant see why she would say no. From my encounters in Amsterdam girls use condoms on their clit when receiving oral.

Must be the PMT monster, or the sponge effect??


Anika Mae
06/12/06 07:19
It's difficult to catch something like chlamydia from cunnilingus, but there's always herpes.

I find the attitude around these places to girls who don't accept oral to be quite irritating. We're already providing an intimate service and RO is more intimate still, so some girls (who aren't getting paid much) don't want to do it. Leave them to it. In my case, I accept oral but to be quite honest I can't enjoy it unless I know and trust the person who's going down on me or am so horny that my inhibitions are overridden. My second boyfriend liked to bite, so I have some issues there.


one eyed panda
06/12/06 08:22
Come across this a few times. In fact its supposed to be something that allows the girl to work normally so oral would have been 'allowed'. I'm pretty sure there was nothing in there because even with a condom on you can feel the obstruction, if you know what it is, so to speak. Funnily enough I was in A'dam last week and had a great punt, including a lot of reverse. While I can imagine dutch girls, who are very hygiene conscious to the point of taking all the fun away, doing what you describe I for one wouldn't bother unless the girl was very specific she could feel what I was doing through the condom/femidom?


one eyed panda
06/12/06 08:27
I think my experience is that the majority of girls I have seen were more than happy to accept/receive oral on them, hence my surprise at being turned down. From my side I don't see it as more intimate than any other activity really except that as something that is intended to arouse and lead to a climax for the lady. Some are really pleased that you do it for them, especially if they don't cum through intercourse.

I wasn't offering a criticism because it's not explicitly part of the service, it was the grounds for turning down I was unsure about that's all.


one eyed panda
06/12/06 08:28
She was just one of those ladies that doesn't want to engage with the client.


Anika Mae
06/12/06 08:44
Well it sounds like she was a bit rude, perhaps in a bad mood, but there's risk involved in all sexual activity. In the US and Australia it's far less common to find RO available without some kind of barrier.

My comment was aimed at you and all the people I've seen in the last few weeks saying how weird it is not to accept oral sex or to charge extra. Obviously, people perceive these things differently and it's over the comfort level for some. Also, if you get any group of sexually open women together in private they'll have stories of slobberers, suckers, and one-button men. A lot of men give really bad head even for someone who doesn't object to it in principle, and no prostitute is going to believe that you know what you're doing just because you say so.


one eyed panda
06/12/06 10:46
I once irritated a girl quite badly due to stubble - I am one of those who is very aware of getting oneself into tip-top order for a punt, probably better than going out on a date. This time I must've had an oversight and simply gave the stubble the once-over, not enough if you want a smooth chin. She didn't complain that much but I was 'mortified'.

But this I can't take lying down. If guys don't do oral well it because they havn't been directed. It's actually quite tricky to get girls to tell you if you're doing something they like or not - I try out lots of different things as far as I can that may include some of things you mention in a slightly less than approving way. Some girls react differently you have to experiment a bit.


Anika Mae
06/13/06 06:39
Directions don't always help. Some people need more help than I can give them!

If someone asks me to be honest about how they're doing then I always will be, even if it means more work. If they haven't though, then I have to be conscious of my role, which is ultimately to give pleasure rather than to receive. I give some directions, but there's a limit. If a man wants to believe that he can make a woman have uncountable orgasms with his tounge, then it's my job to play along with that fantasy. Unfortunately, without being told, I don't know how fantasy and honesty are valued by any one client.


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