do u ever?
get this?
boys who say, that they cant come back....it was too good?
what? eh? isnt that the best fun?
ive had 3 of this ilk recently, i suppose i should be flattered, but theres no way i would want to discard a good time?
please dont think this is an ad or an invite or trying to make myself look fab, im gen interested in comments.
ok, now u know from date of blog, i had a visitor tonite.
brilliant fun, and then, the same quip as a recent visitor.
frightened that they could get to like this too much, get too attached, they didnt expect me to be this and that etc..want to come back tomoro, but...prob never will. keep a nice memory of an unavailable woman.
its like "the rules" but opposite. (that book)
its more profound than what ive written here, but u get my jist.
its a lovely compliment, but..
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Added on: 09/11/06 17:57
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dollymopp |
 
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rings true el, the PM thing! we all know who does that tho.
i did like the random flower delivery thing tho.
i have bought things, last thing, cufflinks. they went so well with a tie i saw he wears, they were the perfect match!
Posted on: 09/15/06 18:42
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mark lewis |
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I don't do any of those, or others. I'm probably the perfect gent, unless anyone knows different? lol
Posted on: 09/15/06 08:13
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Eleanor Aston |
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Boundries? OK here goes...
Not calling ten times a day just to chat
Not standing on the doorstep and waiting for the lady to come out.
Not sitting in the car and watching who comes and goes.
Not asking alsorts of questions to the people next door to her about her movements.
Not turning up for an appointment and offering just to pay for dinner with vouchers as compensation.
Not pokeing places you have been asked not to.
Not PM'ing guys that gave her reviews to ask graphicly what she did with them.
Not going ahead any how when she said No because you think she really means yes.
Not cold calling even with flowers because you where in the area and thought it would be a suprise.
Not Threatening her when she no longer talkes your call,emails or wishes to see you.
Not beliveing she loves you because you love her and you get on so well.
The list is endless really...
Posted on: 09/14/06 18:20
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dollymopp |
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maybe they fish for compliments...
yeah that could fit?
but i saw the eyes. u kind of know what the vibe is eh? i wouldnt have posted this had i thought otherwise, but it could be right sometimes. as i said, more profound.
Posted on: 09/13/06 20:42
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darthpervius |
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Or maybe the guy has a thing about getting it on with a sheer number of women men do worry about having less than their fair share of partners deep down
or maybe u do evoke too strong feelings
Posted on: 09/12/06 16:37
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darthpervius |
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Or maybe the guy has a thing about getting it on with a sheer number of women men do worry about having less than their fair share of partners deep down
or maybe u do evoke too strong feelings
Posted on: 09/12/06 16:37
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mark lewis |
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How about explaining what these boundaries are? There might be some we don't know about. lol Rx (Penny *****)
Posted on: 09/12/06 14:32
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mark lewis |
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I can't visit just once, I have to go back when it's good. I've never known it not to be. I know where the boundaries lie, I think? But if your an unattached guy it may be difficult to resist trying to take things where you shouldn't. The blog I removed the other day was all about this, maybe I should have left it on!
Posted on: 09/12/06 14:27
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Its an impossible situation Heather. We give of ourselves in a true way, make the experience very real for the guys, because thats the way we like to do it. Then the guy crosses the boundaries and either they cant continue to see us, or us them.
The only sucessful way I have dealt with this is to get a regular guy who had deep feelings for me, to see other girls too. Helped him do some research and recommended a few ladies. Its worked out well, I still get to see him now and again and we have remained friends and he also gets to see other ladies and now realises why the boundaries are there.
Hugs
Penny xxx
Posted on: 09/12/06 03:52
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