Forum - ANAL SEX..

Hello nicebutt776,
I'd like to know the answer to the question 12pleaseu asked, as well.

Ha ha, this is typical Thai thinking. You see it in a porno movie so it represents all white (farang) people. Sure, all white women love to make porno movies for free.

Is it true or not that anal sex carries more risk than vaginal sex?Is this true or not.

Yes, anal sex carries more risk than vaginal sex. And unprotected anal sex carries VERY much more risk.

As the anal passage is much smaller than the vagina, it is more prone to rip during penatration allowing blood to enter the penis and semen to enter the blood stream via the rip.If either partner are infected with hiv or hepititus,then this is main way of contracting these diseases sexually.When engadging in anal sex stronger condoms should be purchased and used.

Personally, I prefer to be on the giving end of anal sex, but I have to confess that I once had an asian girlfriend who would love to slide her dildo up my ass while performing oral sex on me and it was an incredibly good feeling.

And it never ceased to amaze me how this smaller asian woman (she was about 5'2" tall and maybe 110 lbs) could take all of me up her bum and thorougly enjoy it. And I'm not small either (about 8 1'2" and thick.!)

I've always thought the key to enjoying anal sex is trust and listening to your partner - and taking it nice and slow with alot of lubrication. Once she's comfortable than you can pick up the pace alittle and enjoy it. And it certainly doesn't hurt to stimulate her clit while you're in her back door as well.

This always produced very intense orgasms for her.

Here are three educational items on anal sex for women. First is a book, second and third are videos:

Masterclass: Anal Sex, by Charlotte Webb

Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Anal Sex

Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sex for Women

These should be available from various sources.

I had boyfriend who i did anal with all the time and i enjoy it a lot, make you cum good, but later with client he not say and i thought he would try but i was not ready and he ended up damaging me, very painful, so now i just say no. maybe in future if with new boyfriend but i will have to trust him and he will need to be careful and slow. other wise my bum is not for use.

you are very right you have to relly trust the person but still at the same you have be very careful

To be honest, I think the anus - as a sexual object- is far inferior to the vagina. I think it's the novelty of the act that makes it appear interesting to most straight men. The 'shittiness' of the act is what usually discourages me. A good local-cleanse is always necessary before and a general one after.

Anal sex for me is great, at first it does hurt, for the first 30 seconds pretty much. But then I get accustomed to it and it just feels so exotic and great. I cum harder than ever during anal. It's great!

I just recently became rather fluent in Greek. I was the same exact way, you know, about it hurting to bad. I won't lie it hurts like hell ONLY for the first 2 minutes and then it is the most pleasurable type of stimulation there is. Studies have shown that there are more sensual nevere endings in and around the anus.


So if you are still frightened. Google it and believe me there is gold and the end of that rainbow!

This is a site that i found that gives you some really good ideas if you are going to have anal sex for the first time.

Sex Tutor

A really big one is to try the fingers and progressively keep adding until you feel you are ready to try the real thing.

I agree with all of the suggestions everyone has posted. Anal can be very enjoyable if it's done correctly. And yes it does hurt a little at first, but if you will think about it so did vaginal. For most people the first time with anything is a little uncomfortable. You have to get use to it and once you do you'll come back for more! I know I did.
This is something you must start out on your own with (fingers work best for stretching, then slowly work up to larger toys) and I wouldn't add it to your services till you know for sure this is something you are going to be comfortable with. And because there is a higher risk involved I probably wouldn't put it out there for everyone and anyone. I have a few clients that this offered to because I have seen them a few times and I am comfortable with them. Trust is a big part of this type of activity.
I can only speak for myself but I really enjoy anal. It causes some of the most intense orgasms I have ever had. Can't wait to be totally filled (vaginal and anal at the sametime) and find out just what kind of orgasms that will cause! :-)

just be safe....