Marc Perkel also wrote
The Nerd's Guide to Sex. Its a companion piece to
How to Use Escort Services. I can't say that I agree with everything he says, but he does a pretty good job of presenting the woman's perspective to fellow nerds.
quote Marc Perkel :
I am a middle-aged nerd who is average looking and a little overweight. There is nothing special about me physically. I'm just another guy like you are. I've always loved to figure things out and understand how they work and women and sex are interesting to me. I do have two unusual talents. I'm very good at understanding things, and I'm very good at explaining things. I've done a lot of investigating and I'm now prepared to share what I've learned.
Most guys think that sex is something that is supposed to come naturally. They believe that they are born with the knowledge to be great lovers. But that isn't the case. Men know enough instinctively to reproduce, but not to really please a woman ...
What I found was that men don't know the basics. What it takes to be a good lover isn't very hard to learn and I believe it can be easily taught. So, you too can be great in the sack and I'm going to teach you how to do it.
Besides not understanding the basics, of what turn women on, I found that most men make a lot of mistakes that turn women off. The biggest area of improvement isn't in learning what to do right as much as eliminating what most men do wrong. Most guys can be a better lover by just doing nothing than doing what they are used to doing. When a woman has sex with you she wants to come. She is capable of making herself come and all you have to do is not mess it up. In this book I'll show you a step-by-step approach to learning how to do it right.
Table of Contents
Genesis - The Way It Really Happened
1. Origin of the Universe
2. Origin of Sex
3. Sex and Evolution
4. The Future of Fucking
What is Sex Really?
5. The Mystery Revealed
6. Sex and Love
7. Sex with Strangers
8. Moral, Legal and Political Issues
What Women Want
9. What's Under the Hood
10. Male vs. Female Orgasms
Understanding the Basics
11. All Women are Sluts
12. Be Nice
13. Be Prepared
14. It's like Petting Cats
15. Synchronization
Women's Bodies
16. Putting It In
17. Finding the Clit
18. Fucking the Clit
19. Let Her Get on Top
20. Ladies Come First
21. Women's Breasts
Sexual Training
22. First You need a Woman
23. Woman on Top
24. Mutual Masturbation
25. Confidence makes Women Come
26. Sexual Trust
27. Pornography
28. How Fast to Go - How Much Foreplay
29. Exhibitionism
30. Honey and the Prune
31. Back from the Dentist
32. Candy tries me out
33. Just Past Virginity
34. And then there's Jenny
35. Doing it on the Internet and Telephone
Summary / Conclusion
36. Reviewing some of the key issues presented here
37. Here is summary of many of the key concepts
Frequently Asked Questions