Do You Offer Incalls?

This is a poll for escorts on the reasons for offering incalls, or not.

I am asked many times by potential clients whether or not I offer incalls ... even though I explicitly state in all of my advertising that I am 'outcall only'. It is like they do not read or they think that the information we provide is all a facade.

Personally, the risks associated with offering incall services are too high for me. Obviously, others do not feel the same since there are many escort ads offering incalls (you can search for them on this site). Legality aside, incall services exposes one's personal privacy and safety to compromise. Clients that turn 'bad' now know where they can find you to stalk and harass, and even 'good' clients can become fixated and nuisances by dropping in unannounced.

I am interested in what you think and your reasons for / against - and also your personal experiences either good or bad.

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Hi Dominixe
I know in one of the places l worked before, we got a house together, bought it between us, then we split the house into rooms, which ever room was free basically, put in real nice shower, for the clients to use while they waited, then also had a girl on reception and a waiting area. We had private waiting as well. One of the girls who worked in Europe before told us that’s how a lot places where.

It worked really well, we had a kitchen for us, the clients who were submissive did all the cleaning for us, which was great. A place to sit, so no one could disturb us and our own bathroom. Clients liked it.
But one of the girls had to go home for family problems so we returned it back into a house and sold it and made a profit.

It worked really well, clients knew they could come and go privately, we knew we could call on help if we needed it.

But the best part was when we finished working I could go back to where I lived and be me again knowing that no one would be waiting, no one knocking on your door at strange times. It is true some men do fall in love with SP’s.

I wouldn’t entertain in calls to my house. That’s my space, that’s were my thoughts and dreams are, my life. Private pictures of my friends and family. Things that I buy just for me, its were I live. And that I think is most important, we work as service providers, but we also have our own lives as well, which we keep for family and friends.

i might be the only one saying this but no its just not worth the risk and people get to see your private things, if the really want a companion then they could allow us at their place or find a place

I agree with you Dominixe 100% and currently dealing with the exact dilemma. I prefer providing outcall services because I find it more discreet and less risky. I know that I get less business because of this preference and last month offered an incall at a nice hotel but my client was a no-call/no-show. I don’t want to fall into the trap of overbooking clients to minimize financial loss. I still on the fence about this because I believe there has to be clients who prefer outcall services.

Hugs & Kisses,
Teri

It was hard for me to choose between number 4 and 6 variants but in the end i decided that number 6 is more truthful.

Hi Dominixe :-)

Actually I net more income with outcalls. My typical outcall client is someone in town on business which works out great. However, like you stated I’ve had potential clients request an incall after placing an ad stating “outcall only”. I’ve had a situation were the potential client called me and requested an incall and became extremely agitated when I told him that I didn’t have an incall available; that made me really uneasy. Not to mention, that another potential client was upset that my incall was the same fee as my outcall. I secured my room before sitting up ANY appointments. I was a newbie then and foolishly posted on an infamous site now known for stings; growing pains and I will NEVER do that again.

I apologize for ranting but hearing someone else sharing this issue validates my concerns. For a moment, I thought I was the only companion struggling with this outcall issue. I even wrote a blog the other day about it and then read your post. The bottom-line for me is that I do have a professional career in the healthcare field and offer companionship on a part-time bias. I simply can’t risk the in and out traffic at my home. The risk of LE and ultimately ruining my career would shame my family but am an undercover nympho ;-) who loves this part-time business and will have to strategically minimize any risk. Thank you for creating this poll and sharing your experience. I look forward to reading what other members think.

I prefer not to offer it. Too risky. But if the client is old (I mean not a new one :)) we can have some fun in my apartment, it is more tiny and convenient.

out-call only..............................plus who wants to do it with a bunch of kids running around the house,lol.

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I have been around a long time and found from experience that the extra money you make doing incall does not make up for letting yourself become vulnerable to others. I have a chosen location to meet gentlemen and they pay for the room. Once I see them for awhile and there is trust I might offer a change in scenery.
Kisses Haley

I can't offer incall because I have roommates (some of whom are not aware of my "extra" job). However, I would be willing to offer incall to regular clients, but only if I felt I could trust them with my home address.

No way to do incalls!!!

Incalls make you too vulnerable. Any customer can come back at any time and do whatever. imagine for you ladies, some custoemr will find it "cool" to show to his friends aftr few drinks that he knows a pricate escort. Then you are in trouble. Many possible options in this regards. So, don't do it!

Only option is to have a room at other areas of hwere you live. Then, maybe. but then it is again not a real incall.

I think it is most important to keep private life and business life/escort life seperated.