Girlfriend experience
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09/23/09 04:28
Ebony Rose |
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Dates for first time clients, for me, are usually at least 2 hours long with most of the first hour spent talking, getting to know each other and just getting comfortable. We chat, flirt a little, chat more before proceeding to more intimate activities.
I feel that this prelude is what makes a GFE - as Lonelitude mentioned, letting the client completely forget that what we are offering is a service. My prelude is just like any other date, a little drinks or a light meal with a new date, breaking the ice, etc. I try to replicate a genuine normal date as best I can. That's my take on GFE anyway (: -------------------- Singapore's Luxury Companion
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09/23/09 10:25
Naughty Kitty |
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quote Ebony Rose : Dates for first time clients, for me, are usually at least 2 hours long with most of the first hour spent talking, getting to know each other and just getting comfortable. We chat, flirt a little, chat more before proceeding to more intimate activities. I feel that this prelude is what makes a GFE - as Lonelitude mentioned, letting the client completely forget that what we are offering is a service. My prelude is just like any other date, a little drinks or a light meal with a new date, breaking the ice, etc. I try to replicate a genuine normal date as best I can. That's my take on GFE anyway (: very much agree. My least is 2 hours and I offer the 3rd hour free IF THE MAN WANT TO MEET outside for drink or lunch or dinner first. -------------------- Do you want your balls in my hand or do you want me to hand you your balls?
-2 hours 5000 baht *lunch or dinner + 2 hours 5000 baht -4 hour 6, 500 *lunch or dinner + 4 hours 6500 baht -all day OR all night 8500 baht - 24 hour 12000 *more than 1 day 10,000 baht per day www.gappza.me |
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10/01/09 16:53
EroticSynergy |
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quote Naughty Kitty : I happy to give man GFE but if you forget to pay I am that GF who kicked you in the balls. Hahahahahahahahahahaha! Very funny Kitty! I vote for you because of this line. From Wikipedia, here is the classic deinition of what a "girlfriend experience" or GFE is: The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers. There is a focus on not just completing a sexual act, but also having more of an experience. Often sessions last longer and are "no rush," which means the call girl spends the full advertised time rather than rushing out after a climax. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing and/or french kissing, cuddling and foreplay. By contrast, non-GFE prostitutes typically refrain from kissing because they consider it more emotionally intimate than sexual intercourse without kissing. A call girl advertising the provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she provides deep french kissing (DFK), "full service" (intercourse) usually with protection, and fellatio and cunnilingus, both with or without protection. Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by call girls to promote business. |
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10/08/09 12:37
sexyjonas |
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hi,for me it mean a longer than a short time with someone,go out,have meal or some drink or cinema,shopping,even a few days by the beach together in a hotel.It different when someone just want you go nvisit hotel 2 hour than someone that want and like spent time together.
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11/10/09 19:56
roxy25 |
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I'm GFE :)
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11/16/09 08:28
maddie4fun |
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Wow, good comments here.
Here is what it generally means in my neck of the woods. Firstly, some clients over here look more to the physical of it more than or just as much as the emotional. It means kissing, (As Alexa said, girls traditionally did not kiss). It means BBBJ and DATY in the way that Mr. Pearl described it. It means not watching the clock. Over here they pay first, so they wont forget to pay. And it does imply FS. LOL. Then comes the intangibles, being sweet, acting as if it weren't a service and that you are truly there for an interlude. It means having your time management under control in such a way that you appear to naturally be ready to go as if it were truly an interlude and you had to return to your office, home or wherever. It also means listening and responding appropriately, maybe giving a backrub, and/or other things that may imply intimacy. I offer a Naughty GFE experience which includes this stuff and a little more if a gent asks about it. I must admit, I had to get accustomed to the kissing at first but it has become a part of the experience now. The good thing about it is that it really does allow me to see and learn a little more about the client, because I am listening and more open than if I were just running in and out for a very fast encounter. So guys really are nice. This service has come to be expected down here, and to my knowledge, one would probably have to drop their rates way down if they didnt offer it because now so many ladies do. |
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11/16/09 08:49
Mr_Pearl |
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quote maddie4fun : Wow, good comments here. Here is what it generally means in my neck of the woods. Firstly, some clients over here look more to the physical of it more than or just as much as the emotional. It means kissing, (As Alexa said, girls traditionally did not kiss). It means BBBJ and DATY in the way that Mr. Pearl described it. It means not watching the clock. Over here they pay first, so they wont forget to pay. And it does imply FS. LOL. Then comes the intangibles, being sweet, acting as if it weren't a service and that you are truly there for an interlude. It means having your time management under control in such a way that you appear to naturally be ready to go as if it were truly an interlude and you had to return to your office, home or wherever. It also means listening and responding appropriately, maybe giving a backrub, and/or other things that may imply intimacy. I offer a Naughty GFE experience which includes this stuff and a little more if a gent asks about it. I must admit, I had to get accustomed to the kissing at first but it has become a part of the experience now. The good thing about it is that it really does allow me to see and learn a little more about the client, because I am listening and more open than if I were just running in and out for a very fast encounter. So guys really are nice. This service has come to be expected down here, and to my knowledge, one would probably have to drop their rates way down if they didnt offer it because now so many ladies do. Very nice post Maddie!!! I guess, I've done this for some ladies, although we didn't call it BFE (Boy friend experience, if the term suits here LOL)... I call it the 'Companion' services.. I've acted as a Travel companion or as a Companion for parties etc... Yes, being a good-listener is an essential part of such services. I agree that the clock doesn't matter in this case, in fact I have been with my client for more than the pre-decided time, when I was hired. It hasn't been that frequent with me; most women here look for private sexual encounters... Once again you've enlightened us Maddie... Votes for you! :) Have Fun! -------------------- Lets have sex, lets see how happy it makes;
Let us Kiss, my dear Miss; You feel my dick and let me lick; Let me suck your nipples, see how the Fun tripples; Let me give you a hard fuck!!!! http://hotmalepune.escort-site.com http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?rl=ls&uid=17047187060411186651 |
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11/17/09 07:34
Apie |
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Agree.
it is to stay like we are friends, lovers etc. However, it has to be understood that we still work. For such, we also still need to get paid and if it means to spend more time together also get more money. Hope not too straight forward...lol |
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11/17/09 08:01
Mr_Pearl |
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Oh... well... I never thought about asking for more money for spending a few extra hours, at parties etc... But it does sound a good idea! I'll try it with only regular and trusted clients though... Because if I try it with new ones, it might make wrong impression in their mind, and the client might think twice before calling me next time... At least, that is how, I judge this..
Have Fun!!! :) -------------------- Lets have sex, lets see how happy it makes;
Let us Kiss, my dear Miss; You feel my dick and let me lick; Let me suck your nipples, see how the Fun tripples; Let me give you a hard fuck!!!! http://hotmalepune.escort-site.com http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?rl=ls&uid=17047187060411186651 |
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11/18/09 00:30
BBW_Dani |
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I agree totally with Maddie, I think we're from the same neck of the woods. LOL!
GFE - kissing, intimatcy, cuddling after, conversations about whatever he wants to talk about, etc. Even if he is done sexually ten minutes after I arrive, I am willing to stay and be there with him, I am not rushing out the door or watching the clock. |
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01/20/10 05:01
VanessaStolmin |
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quote dominixe : quote Tony : For me, the GFE experience must include LFK or DFK, DATY, and CBJ or BBBJ at the very least. To me, the underlying premise of Girlfriend Experience (GFE) is: girlfriend = intimacy, and experience = an emotional connection ... an intimate, emotional connection that is meaningful to both partners, such that the feeling of 'having a girlfriend' is indistinguishable from the real thing. If you don't acknowledge the intimacy and emotional underpinnings of GFE then what you have stated is just a cold, sterile list of sex acts that you can get from any prostitute if you are willing to pay, and she is desperate enough. It just will not feel like you have 'a girlfriend'. Your description of GFE is a common male-centric fantasy. I can tell you that if you don't reciprocate the intimacy and emotion, then you will not have a girlfriend (for long), either real or virtual. And I shake my head at your comment: quote Tony : No oral sex without exchange of bodily fluids means no GFE. It's that simple! Otherwise, it is just a hobbyist/escort hookup. This is a flippant trivialization of the real risks of STDs. So do I want to have a 'boyfriend' experience with someone who only defines a 'girlfriend' as someone willing to do specific unsafe sex acts? Not! See the GFE definition in The Big Doggie glossary here. -------------------- An elegant courtesan among Calgary escorts, providing vip executive escort companionship to business travelers. Experience elite GFE, fetish, and domination services from the best of Calgary escorts. Well said! The trem GFE is a romance experience between two lovers. not just there body parts. It's Mind body and soil. BB any thing is usally a "wife experience" |
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02/06/10 01:01
sweet kelly |
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I would agree with everyone who said the "GFE" has an element of intimacy. I would think a hobbyist who wants a "GFE" wants to feel like they are with someone who wants to be with them and make them feel good, not just a quickie and out the door. They want to be treated like they are your boyfriend, not just another customer. For alot of clients it is about more than just a quick release, it is about feeling wanted and enjoyed. That is what I have found in my experience.
-------------------- Sensual & Sweet, See You Soon! Kelly
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02/07/10 04:38
meriposa |
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quote sweet kelly : I would agree with everyone who said the "GFE" has an element of intimacy. I would think a hobbyist who wants a "GFE" wants to feel like they are with someone who wants to be with them and make them feel good, not just a quickie and out the door. They want to be treated like they are your boyfriend, not just another customer. For alot of clients it is about more than just a quick release, it is about feeling wanted and enjoyed. That is what I have found in my experience. You right "sweet kally" in your comments. One thing to add about GFE - is a two way street. Not only customer likes to be treated as one would expect to be treated by reall GF, but also he treats escort girl as his GF. And that means mutual pleasure, accepting boundaries and enjoy each other company in and outside bed (or kitchen table - if you preffer:-)) I guess time factor is of lesser importance. |
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02/07/10 04:45
Mr_Pearl |
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I agree with Kelly and Meriposa... Excellent posts guys!!! Yes it should be that way for GFE... It is kind of being in a relation for that time and I am sure it must be fun.. .I haven't tried it yet... Votes for both of you... :)
-------------------- Lets have sex, lets see how happy it makes;
Let us Kiss, my dear Miss; You feel my dick and let me lick; Let me suck your nipples, see how the Fun tripples; Let me give you a hard fuck!!!! http://hotmalepune.escort-site.com http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?rl=ls&uid=17047187060411186651 |
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02/09/10 10:59
Doc77 |
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Kelly perfectly expresses the reason the GFE is so desirable and so effective in creating repeat business/intimacy. Votes for Kelly
-------------------- Doc77
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