When you screen what do you look for?

When you screen what do you look for and what are the obvious signs that sends an alarm?

I won't get into too much detail, because there are people out there that like to research and skirt around screening, but I generally look for:

Honesty; If I am given any reason to think you are lying to me about your information I will not see you. Inconsistencies often herald much worse.

Forthcoming with necessary information; If a gentleman is too reluctant to give his info, I assume he has something to hide. I realize that many are concerned about their privacy, but a legitimate provider will know it is not in his/her best interest to be indiscreet.

Manners; If you are rude/pushy on the phone or through email, I have no reason to expect any difference in person. I am also not interested in meeting any man who finds it acceptable to send me a picture of his genitalia as an introduction.

Asking explicit questions or for info clearly set forth in my ads; not only does LE do this, but it shows an inattention to detail--gentlemen who glance at an ad and are concerned only with a picture and phone number tend to be far less considerate during a date, and may be disappointed to discover I don't offer a service they'd like even though they could have known this before calling. They may also not have paid attention to my rates and expect me to provide service for whatever amount of money they have at the time, which is a waste of time for me.

Obviously, I also check for violent tendencies as well.

There is more, but I don't want to provide info for those who attempt to get around screening.

Ladies (& gents), one reference is never enough, and DO check the references your potential client provides, even if the client has written a review for the reference--some clients will provide fake references hoping you won't check them.

Thank you Dear!!!! You are such a great help.

Dishonesty, big talkers, time wasters, liars, & hypocrites. Also continuing to ask for $ is another tip off! It's happened to me more than once...as a result of their greed, I chose NOT to see these particular providers (screening works both ways).

This is so true Serena - if you give out too much info, then the shady people are always trying to work an angle to get try and throw you off! Certain things are better left for a "Ladies Only" locker room!
Always follow your gut! Please be careful out there ladies!
Maria of DFW

yeah all those things are good to look out for. if u allow ppl who are rude, hypocritical ignorant and not that good at sex in next thing u may be headhunted be a govt whore and no i dont just mean sun or daily mail or any tabloid snoozepaper lets face it the broadsheets are full of lies and more boring in some ways...

if anyone has no light in their eyes i dont wanna see them, i sure necrophillia illegal even under these laws. jokes :P

i used to let a few ppl who wanna try get wide visit me or more usually meet them then if they confirm they fkn evil i get a bit payback in, symbolically speaking :P for any next girls they may have tried to hurt...

I try to cut the BS right away. Those guys who give a lot of info and promises to give you more than the usual and promises to book you for a long engagement is just a clear sign of red flag for me so what I do is to tell them that if they want to get a booking they need a booking fee or a deposit. A real guy wont even have to be asked to pay a deposit if his bookings is a month or two ahead he will send a deposit knowing how real the provider he is seeing( it would be stupid of his to end someone who has not been verified, he must do his homework before sending a deposit)
I have had no issues with clients sending deposits coming from different parts of the world. I believe men who are smart enough would know that I am real and I hate BS. Also those kind of men who does that are not flaky and are real gentlemen for assuring you they are real.
I even had a guy who paid me in advance, the full amount and the only inhibition he has was if he and I will hit it off or not but the moment he spoke to me on the phone he felt so relaxed. So he extended his time with me and had absolutely enjoyed our time together.

I have been in the business for many years (mature female) I tend to be nervous with everyone who calls no matter how nice they seem to be. I put as much info I can into my ads and avoid discussing anything over the phone. No matter how much you screen clients...there is always a chance of getting LE at your door. It happened to me recently in West Chicago. An UC came to see me for a full hr visit. He was clean cut and quiet. While sitting on the couch in my upscale hotel room...I told him he looks like a cop. He said he isn't so I asked what he did for a living...he said he's a plumber. One look at his hands and I can tell he is a liar. Then the SOB asks me...so what happens next. I told him talk, I guess he thought I was stupid but I know how to play the game. I told him he can kick his shoes off and make himself comfortable. As he untied his laces, he said...oh I forgot my cash. I simply said...if you're not interested in spending time with me, please be honest. I saw the dumbass pull off in a black truck.

The next guy who called me...he said so what room are you in. I said to him...dont you need to know which hotel first.

I had a funny feeling about the idiot before so I planned to lay low for the rest of the evening. I didn't and was unsure about meeting him but I did. Well I was right...he was LE and badge at his side as I opened the door. He said...you know why we're here so step aside. I was dressed in shorts and a top with heels. A uniformed female officer patted me down.

I'm totally drug free and no warrants. These cops ripped apart my room for drugs...asking me several time where they were. I said I'm drug free. After a ton of questions and bullshit. They had nothing to go on.

They said to consider myself lucky...yeah like I was scared lol...They told me to pack my shit and leave town...I said ok and jumped to it.

I was laughing the entire time in my head, because I knew what to say to the idiot before and they had nothing to go on.

It doesn't matter how you screen your clients...the UC was perfect over the phone.
Exactly the type who I see. No stupid questions and polite.

UC can lie about being LE. Honestly just be careful how you speak with the men who visit. Don't do quickie service and allow time to get aquainted. Never undress first and don't fall for bullshit! Some say lets get down to business. I kick them out when they say that.

Make sure you don't have warrents/drugs and don't discuss rates EVER...no proof of anything means no arrest.

good luck ladies. I hope this was helpful

I also like to encourage my lady to confirm my hotel reservations as well as my flite plans...it shows my honesty to the lady.

Miss_V, you played your cards correctly. I will never work in Illinois because its one of the few states that allows officers to enjoy a full session before arresting an escort. Glad you managed to avoid that.

no wonder apple come home. dont think I cold work like that in USA

All it takes is one bad experience to teach you what not to say or do. It pays off to be safe. First timers never have their way with me...I'm always in full control. I have asked people to leave after 10 minutes just because of things they said to me. Newbee providers need a guidebook lol. They think it's fast cash and it's not. It is a business and needs to be handled right. Screening clients is needed more now than ever.

Thanks to providers offering quickie sessions, real companions are looked at the same by LE. They think we will fall for the BS just as easily. I love all the real companions, they're smart. I wish some of these providers would read more and learn from us who are experienced.