How do YOU deal with it?

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i have 3 who want serios with me and 2 say want marry with me from only email before meet. and they 100% serios. for me i stop to make plan to see anybody want to be so serios like that only from email. any girl have same?

Believe it or not, i have met two people that think it is a turn on that men have to pay to be with me! I have a lawyer now that wants me bad and wants me to be with other men. Crazy but true.

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You have to choose one life,being an escort is not an easy life.
You may earn easy money for your living,but you must deal with your reality life,
As a long time escort,even if one of your client said he loves you,he wanted to start a relationship with you,you want to prove it whether he is really true or just want to get free sex,I agree with you.
I can not see myself in being married while Iam doing my work or your work,escorting.
For me,it's hard to deal with different life while Iam so independent earning my own living this way,any girls who want to choose to get out of this work and married to one of your client or a man whom you meet anywhere,if he support your living,that can be work out,I had a friend who gave up her work and married to a man she met and the man support her living.
If one of your client whom you or he falling in love with,if he wants you to do your work while he marry you,and he does not support your living,worst of it, he does not have a job,he might just want to live out of your income,Forget it!Forget it!

while not exactly the same I actualy was in a situation similar

http://www.sexyescortads.com/forum/view_topic/26797/

BUT more to the point im not sure how ide deal with it in a prior professional relationship..

due to my bleeding heart personality type i need to set up certain personal walls with a provider else i could to easily be taken advatage of.


if it was me on the receiveing end ide rather have the provider be upfront and honest. i realize that may hurt some clients egos but its better than all the damn drama :> pick up cool off move on :>

I think a good chunk of your clients come to you because your professional and are more in touch with sexuality and your sexual skills are better than the average person they bring home or are tied to. In their heads they entertain the idea of OMG it be great if she was mine but deep down emotionally they are deluding them selves into thinking they would be able to deal with all the other issues for that great sex. but all those issues require two very strong and understanding personality's and thats hard to come by.

Most men i would guess, would rather have the strait truth "sorry i just don't like you that way". Over

" hey i just got off Mark , and after i leave here i've got to go lick Steves left arse cheek then i need to leave a steamer on Father MC'arthys chest before i go home and soak in a tub for 3 hours :>

shrug that would probably put them in place to. BUT it would DEFINITELY change how their mental image of you is and that illusion is a big part of your business you may be seeing 50 clients a day but during their time they want the illusion they are your only one. (well most do)

I feel for you its a tricky slope to navigate and im not really sure how i'de react to it personally.


But since i am lucky enough to have circles of friends catering to all lifestyles in a non professional environment my views on sexuality and true intimacy are a bit screwed from the "norm" so take it with a grain of salt :> but thats also the same reason im currently trying to find a provider. As where i am at now i know im not going to be here forever.. and im just not the type for casual boot knocking.


now that doesn't mean i would be against it happening. Just she would have to make the first move and realistically im not sure how ide feel about it .. career wise i spend a lot of time working but i also get a lot of extended free time (think work a few months off a few weeks).
there would have to be some serious trust personally, while i may entertain the idea of asking her to quit her career. I would not hold it against her if she chose not to till she was ready (i make a modest white picket fence income but would be considered land wealthy) and if the rumors are true there's no way my pocket book could compare to some of you ladies :> but then again if all she was about was money she wasn't my kind a lass to begin with.

Either way ide chalk dealing with that up to "obligatory career hazard" just like all the damn BDSM ladies trying to "take the bartender home for a spin" for me :> (im open minded and actually cool with it but damn some of those people take it WAY to seriously)

It was really inevitable, but the first to make sure that wont happen is to keep and make sure he understand the lines between from the start.

Falling a client to me is not my problem, but falling to my client, thats the problem!

ugh!