Men that fall for escorts

I have a boyfriend who was supposed to be a potential client. He says it won't go anywhere but keeps coming back. I see him once a week and he is a great guy. Everything is going great so far. Now he calls me his girlfriend.

I have had a couple of clients that really fell for me and want to see me on the outside. One right now that can't get his mind off me. What are these men thinking?
I guess some men get turned on at the idea of dating a escort.

I guess it's difficult for some men to separate sex from romantic/lustful feelings. It's kinda pathetic when this occurs, don't U think, Keri? I liken it to falling for the first skirt to sho up...I kno my own brother did in falling for the first skirt. Tho he's been married forever, his wife (?) is a TOTAL BITCH!

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A escort is not necessarily a bad person, and there are obviously escorts who marry after leaving their profession.

But remember, escorts are professionals in dealing with men. They know how to please, it's their job. You only get to see the facade, the great sex, the great service, the comments and gestures that are meant to make a man happy and hopefully make him come back again. A steady existing customer is a very good source of income for a escorts, much better than trying to find new ones.

once you chose to be an escort there are things that will affect you the rest of your life. Will you lie to your children about your past? you future bf or husband will lie to his family? All couples have fights and 100% no matter how perfect he is your man will someday throw you past at you when fighting. Some men will even go as far in his head to wonder when you in a mall if any man there has been with you.

These are simple things and bring a lot of stress in life as lies always do. Everythng we do in life comes at a price and it is crazy to think any realationship after being as escort is like one if you has not been one.

Reading some postings and reviews here it seems to me as if it is quite normal, even some ladies' intention, that guys who are in fact suckers, because of their low experience, really fall in love, and are trapped by the spell of some ladies' ultimate girlfriend experience. LOL
So, these guys may not think, but react, only. And they react in the way the lady wants them to react.

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[written with female as hobbyist, but applies in reverse rolls]

Just don't sell yourselves short, ladies. As a successful provider you have developed some pretty impressive people skills. You demonstrate confidence in most all circumstances, you are candid, yet comforting and your experiences make you among the most interesting people on earth. You have characteristics that make you desirable, including but not limited to a certain sexual prowess. Simply, you make good company in and out of bed.

However, hour sexual appetite may be a bit intimidating when considering you as a potential spouse. How does one guy satisfy a girl after she has led such an active sex life as an escort?

The less mature hobbyist may not think about this last point, but there are some very compelling personal traits that make escorts desirable beyond the bedroom.

The nature of the first meeting puts so much of the dating anxieties out the window that a hobbyist can become engaged in genuine, open conversations and activities from the start. This is not a typical date.

It comes as no surprise to me that men who have experienced complicated relationships might be genuinely attracted to a successful escort. However, it can be a big surprise for a man to find himself attracted to the girl's persona as much or more than to the sex. This is likely not something he as dealt with before and can easily inspire some unconventional behavior.

Taking it beyond the attraction is where the maturity comes in. And where men can lose perspective and go nutty in their behavior. I think the earlier posts address the topic from this point forward.

Lots of good comments in this post.
Kitty is right - 99% of relationships between escort and a man (former client or othervise) don't work. True, but so what? 30% of marriages in developed countries don't work either - better than 99% but still not very impressive success rate. Of the remaining 70% many are unhappy and disfunctional but for some reason (couldn't afford divorce is one of them) don't make statistics of failed relationships. (Michael 2015 brother is just one of them.)

Stress of admitting to workmates and family that your partner was an escort?
If one has that problem with family then sure better don't try to get involwed. Workmates is not an issue - is not they problem. Would you share your other personal issues with them anyway? What will you tell your kids - well, that's bit tricky. As much as telling them that your mum gave daddy blowjob on they first date some 15 years ago.

daniccaramos- A escort is not necessarily a bad person, and there are obviously escorts who marry after leaving their profession.
I would add - most of the escorts I've met are not bad persons - maybe I'm just lucky. Many are also interesting personalities outside of sex skills.

Kitty : All couples have fights and 100% no matter how perfect he is your man will someday throw you past at you when fighting. -That depends on quality and calibre of the man. If he treats his woman as personal possesion and believes he has exclusive rights to her (that dosen't leave her much of her rights - does it?) But then he may as well abuse her for having the boyfriend before him even if she never worked as an escort.

With all that being said - would I reccommend relationship with an escort? No, I would not for most of the guys (and perhaps most of the ladies). But I wouldn't dismiss that possibility outright. I even suspect that such relationship could work great because is based on tollerance and acceptance of another person as a whole.

Yes, 99% don't work. But would you really like to be part of 99% of average, boring and narrow minded mass?

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Sometimes we attract the type of client who 'falls in love'. I've notice that when I advertise the GFE aspect and where I put my ads, I get clients here and there who do the how about dinner and a movie thing and when I realign with an agency, particularly incall high volume I get none of that.

Most of the guys who go that route think they are going to either "save me" or "make things easier" so I don't have to work as much if at all.

My best "excuse" that works now is that I do have a S.O. who is also in the biz and i use her as a reason that I won't cheat on her and go out with him. It is a very workable excuse.

yes, it happens....
I used to have clients who courts me....

but I'm always firm in telling them that I want us to be just friends or companion no love relationship involved

because I don't want to get hurt and I know relationship like that don't last for a long time......

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