Lights on / Lights off? Under covers / No covers

Do you prefer to have sex where you can see your partner clearly, or in the dark or under the covers?

As a hobbyist I take great care to select girls who I will enjoy watching. I definitely want to see as much of my (hopefully excited) girl as possible. Dimming the lights for a romantic environment is fine, though. Once I lucked into a room that had mirrors on the closet doors facing the bed. I got a VERY different view of our action. I found this very exciting.

The only time I go undercovers is when it's too cold to function otherwise.

I can understand how providers might want to turn the lights off and bury under the covers, particularly when their client is a bit less than sexy. I guess I know where I stand when my girl wants to hide in the dark under the covers!

Definately lights on so that you can see everything!!

I think lights on is important. Being able to gaze into the eyes of the person you are with creates a great connection and makes the experience special, one on one. I'm a provider and even if I'm with someone less than desirable I still feel making that connection is important. You want your client to feel special, so suck it up if it is someone you would not normally go for and show them that they are the only one that matters at that moment.

yeah when im out on dates with clients most of them want the lights on so they can see everything and switch positions or feel my body easier knowing and seeing where they are touching or if they want to do some non bed standing up stuff I find alot of men like to have me against a wall standing up since im very petiet.

I do get clients that want the lights off under the covers but these are mainly the older men in fiftys and sixtys who dont want to be seen since they think they are out of shape but still want to be with a younger woman, I find these are the men who look like they slipped off their wedidng ring and maybe feel guily about it since alot dont talk much during and leave very quickly after. I mean if the lights are off and you are under the covers thats something old married couples do, if a client wants to hire you just for that it seems to me like a bit of a waste, cant they just climb in bed with some lotion and pretend someones there..

it is up to him or her if lights are on during my session. i don't care really. this isn't about romance and candlelight.

I prefer the lites on as seeing Ur partner is a major turn-on!!!

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It has 2 be lights on 4 sure!! Why on earth wud u want 2 have sex with the lights off and not be able to see the expression on your partners face and see how much the pleasure you are giving them is being enjoyed. We humans are very visual people and get very stimulated by what we see. I have tried it with the lights off and it is awful!!

Being able to see my lady's expression as she cums & enjoys oral & vaginal sex is AWESOME!!!

I always prefer to have the lights on.

In SE Asia, this desire of mine is often met with no enthusiasm. Appears the majority of SE Asian providers I've run into really prefer to have the lights out. Perhaps it's a cultural thing. I'm not sure. Well, I often persuade them eventually. Bathroom light is left on for "soft" lighting. Of course if I'm filming the event, the full lights will be on. Then again, the girls know that going in! :-)

I also like the "soft" lighting that candles provide. If I'm with a girl I really enjoy fornicating and plan on having a marathon session with, the candles come out. Scented candles that is. The aroma and soft lighting the candles provide a nice "romantic" touch. This effect, with some sensual rythmic music in the background = A+!

Lights on is fine with me, though I prefer soft lighting just because I feel it gives a nicer atmosphere. It is always nice to see your partner's reaction to what you're doing... To give you a hint that you are doing the right thing. Aside from that, it's great to feed the senses during the experience and visual stimuli are definitely welcome. Unless of course if what you're looking at is not exactly what you'd like to see.

Syn: To address your concern about SE ladies, I think it has something to do with how they perceive themselves. I mean, they may have insecurities that they may not be attractive enough when naked or whatever. This may also apply to ladies from other regions, but I just think that SE ladies are more predisposed to this attitude compared to the more liberated ladies of the west. (This is a matter-of-factly statement and not laced with racism at all.) Additionally, culture may also have something to do with this in the sense that nudity is something that's still a taboo, generally speaking that is.

I like it uncovered with the lights on. I like to see what going on and have a nice visual memory of the event for the future.

or with ambient lighting, or candle light. i don't like it too bright.
but definately w/o covers. unless it is freezing