Forum - Screen for Your Safety & Security!

Ladies,

Your safety is non-negiable! You cannot get your life back (; It is best to accept more than three lines of screening. If you accept Employment Screening, make sure you ask for the following:

Full Name, Cell Phone & Times to Call, Email Address, City & State of Residence, The Company Name, The Job Title, Main Line, Desk Line, Your Reason for Calling, Complete Company Street Address (NO PO Boxes), His Company Email & The Specific Company Website (related directly to his job). As an extra precaution, you may always ask, if he has a company cell phone in addition to his desk line (such as a realtor).

Also make it clear that you must be able to reach him at his desk in a timely fashion. You should not verify through another employee, a secretary or employer. Make sure that the Employment Screening is verifiable through a phone book & DO NOT ACCEPT SELF-EMPLOYMENT (with cell phones used as company phones).

Do the same thing with Reference Screening. If you prefer easier screening, than I suggest Date-Check. Please visit http://www.date-check.com/ref?w=ee7935f.
This is a screening database where you can easily check References, taking less time. Well, that is my advice.

Screening may not be full proof, but at least you have done something to protect your life & tried. Please be careful. Approach screening with a firm attitude. If the gentleman does not wish to comply, then he may have something to hide & you may not wish to see someone like this.

Hllo,girls,all respect to you,and apologies about my bad english.
Not in every country people are so forthcoming and wanting provide all these refferences,like for example here-Ireland.
People are paranoid....
There was idea in between escorts,that if client dont want to provide personal info,he could give escort name as refference and escort whose name was given,could approve,that he is OK,but it went so far,that some gents started to avoid escorts who was using that system,and went to girls who asked for nothing and did not care,or agencys.

So you cant please everyone.

In my opinion,clients cant be so selfish and think just of themself.
I got an idea,about making screning easier,and wil submitt ticket on it,and will se what site staff thinks about it

Thankd and stay safe x x x

Thanks a lot for your ticket! Working on this system, so it's coming soon! Access will be limited to escorts who are active members of our community as I wrote in the ticket.

Hi Ladies,
you are absolutly right that the Safety and the Security is very important for us ! I never had really bad experience when I had to affraid about myselfe but of course that It can come in future ... nobody knows.

Yes, you can ask the clients for their personal informations like full name, work, name of the company, adress e.c. but nobody can warrant you that the informations which the clients gives you are trully. I think that the best what you can do is inform some of you friend that you have some meeting ( meeting time, place, duration, e.c. ) and inform the friend during the meeting or after the meeting if everything is ok. Like the motto : "A friend in need is friend indeed!!"

I can understand that sometime is quite difficult to trust to somebody who you don´t know, but also important is respect the descreet of the clients. Especialy unexperienced clients can be quite disapointed if you will ask them for perosnal informations.

Myself I do minimal screening. I find you have to think of yourself and the men as well. Not many men feel comfortable giving out too much information to sp's. I have seen posts where sp's have called men at hours when it was not best for them and even some have called weeks, months later to inform men of specials etc... and some men are really leary of this.

I think the trust has to work both ways. Myself I do ask for references or handles on boards that I can check out. Now this is not good for real legit men that are new to the hobby. But can ad some insight of a persons posting history and personality if they provide it. I ask age to be sure they are not minors. I also ask what their interests are sexually to be sure we are both on the same wave legnth. There is a total of I think 7 questions I ask but I never ask for their their phone numbers or too personal of information as this imho could scare them off and they may not know too much about the hobby and could get scared of what I could do with the information.


As it is with the questions I do ask I find that some respond back saying I am complicated and forget it. Now those ones I just laugh at and think to myself if they are scared of such resonable questions then they are not worth my time and probably not the sort of person I would want to meet up with.

I feel I can get a feel of a persons personality just by their responces. I however agree that without screening at all and just posting a number on your site you are opening yourself up for more problems and to just anybody. If someone wants too easy of a hookup and cannot understand or maybe they just pretend not to understand because they are up to no good.

Here is a site that may be useful in the USA http://www.swop-usa.org/Resources.php any new girls should check it out as well as sp's that have worked longer to keep things fresh in their minds to always be prepared. But don't be overly paranoid remember most clients just want to have a good time. :) Just go with your instincts.

Excellent post by all involved thank you I am new to this so I am soaking up all of your advice so thank you.

Once again hello, and I hope everyone is safe, and doing well. After reading many of the replies posted, I just have come to the decision that: If in fact they cannot respect me in the idea, and the information I do need from them, I will not under anyway talk to them, I simply block them on all my sites.
And another thing I wanted to bring up, some of the men need to know, that us being Independent providers do not feel comfortable with what they have to say and decline to see them, posting bad reviews are just unacceptable, I have had to have 2 removed of men that I have NEVER seen.
Ok Ladies, do be safe and take care.
Cherry

What type of in depth screening do you suggest? I think no matter how much you screen, you can never guarantee that the client you will be seeing willnot be a nightmare.

There is never a guarantee that a client will be ok. You must always keep in mind that even if a man was a perfect gentleman with one lady that does not mean he will act the same with you. But screening as much as possible sure will help to weed some of the bad guys out. So if a man does not want to provide me with ALL of the information I need then he will not see me. My saftey is the most important thing to me.

For me I just do outcall so if i not know customer from before i always check name and room number with hotel first.If something i not like i ask customer to meet me at hotel bar then if i still not feel good about customer then i will request if i can take photo he on mobile which i send my friend along with he room number.I find most customer ok.I not take customer when they stay residential address if i not know they well.

To me it seems a little bit too much to expect a client to provide all their details with regard to work etc etc.Here in Thailand I don't think there is any way that a customer would provide such details and would just go and find another escort.,I do not think that a client can be expected to provide sensitive information especially if he does not know the escort.I work alone but I know that alot of girls have some guy behind them so to provide alot of personal details could dangerous to the client.I have not had many problems at all in my escort work here,of coarse there are some clients that are not so good but most i have found to be nice and just want a good time which i like to provide.I do exchange information with other escorts i know in Bangkok so any problem client is usually known to most escort here.

I think there alot difference between work Bangkok and the west.Here most escort not do incall so mainly visit hotel which much more secure than having customer you not know visit your home.If customer visit my home then i would want alot more information about them before i give they my address,but I not do incall so not have this problem.I have not had too many problem working.I think another differene is that most customer here are in Thailand either holiday or buisness trip which means usually they quite well off or successfull and can afford to travel,and also with oversea customer not have to worry too much if police or not,whilst in west maybe most customer from same country as escort come from so this why need information more in west as to make sure who and make sure not police so can understand why escort there want personal information.