Staying to time

Hi
being new i was wondering how you go with staying to the time that is agreed on?
Shometimes it is no problem i am aware of everything and can check the time but if it is a good session then how do you keep track of time? I can get caught up in the act

I dont mind giving the client 10 mins extra ect but need to be able to keep myself focused a bit more i guess, also when visiting hem at at hotel a clock is not always in easy view
any tips or ideas ?
Cheers Amii

It can sometimes be difficult to keep track of time. I have found that the men I'm with worry about it more than I do. Most do not want to take advantage of us and try really hard to stick to the time agreed upon. There are times that a session does run long and most times the gentleman has given me a tip to make up for the time.

I try very hard not to watch the clock, so I use some other tricks. Some guys I'm with like some background noise so they will put the TV on or will play the radio. The radio works well because they tell you the time every now and then. The TV will also work if you are good a judging how many commercials are usually shown in an hour or if the show is only 30 minutes or 60 minutes long. If it is a movie you can still get good at judging 60 minutes.

Another suggestion would be to set the alarm on your cell phone. The alarm will go off even if the phone is on silent. Don't have it set loud, but pick something that you will notice, like a song you really like or a notification that is not annoying.

After a while I just got really good at judging the time, but I tend to have a built in alarm clock. I always wake up in the morning about 5 minutes before the alarm.

Dusty

I knew once the girl that always was coming for a visit with some soft music CD.
Took me a little while before I realized what the real purpose for the "music background" was - ha, ha.
Alarm on the mobile is a monumental "turn-off", so is picking up the phone during the session.
Yes, you may miss another appointment but for sure you will miss any repeated meeting from the customer you with now.

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Yes Dusty. Many Hobbyists are really concerned about time management. Not because they have to pay for the additional time, but to keep up with their own schedules as I do, being active on my business (Maritime Services Provider) that keep us on alert even during unholy hours or Holidays. I do not think that it is appropriate for an escort to have an alarm to notify "time up". Few minutes later than the agreed time will not harm, unless she has to meet another client. But how often an escort has "chain" appointments and 10 or 15 minutes later are crucial? Besides, not keeping time, makes the client happy and willing to see the escort again.
But the issue must be reversed too. If a client has 2 hours free and then he has to rush for a meeting, what will happen if the escort will be late by 20 or 30 minutes?

W/me flying from the USA, it's only common courtesy for the lady to meet me at the airport & then accompany me to our hotel. I think it's also respectful of her clientele NOT to B a clockwatcher, but to B aware of the time in a subtle way so as not to offend.

I don't have the problem of having to rush off to another appointment, I only see one client a day by my own choice but many girls do. When I say an alarm, I mean more of a little chime or something that is really quiet that most people would not even notice, not a loud annoying alarm.

I've never worried about time. There have been times a session has run long and the gentlemen always gives a little extra to make up for the time. I really think it just comes with experience, you get to the point where you can just judge how much time has gone by. But again, I'm not one to up and leave just because time is up, if I'm having fun and so is he I really don't mind giving him a little extra time. Besides, it usually means he will be back again another time.

most I put my watch on table or someplace I can see,but I not really look at it the time having sex,just look the time finished first shot then client clean himself in toilet so I got sometime to look the watch and plan how long for the second shot and how long for I can give them massage,and I not answer any calls during service,turn off the sound if you can.

When I lived in California I spent time with incall escorts more than outcall escorts. Most of them would have some way of monitoring time on my first visit and would tell me that our time together was almost over.

One, Bianca apparently liked me as she stopped keeping track of the hours. I went for an hour visit and stayed 3 hours. I was enjoying myself so much that I lost track of time, which I tend to do if I am enjoying something or am very involved in what I am doing, or both.

We had a short discussion about the our time together, Bianca told me she enjoyed it very much and only asked for half what she normally charged for 3 hours. Just as I was leaving Bianca kissed me and asked me to come back again. Due to the driving distance I never did, but I think about her occasionally.

I knew another lady, Kate, that I visited several times. After the second visit, the only time Kate would keep to a strict time schedule, she would tell me that she had another appointment and I would have to hurry and finish.

I really liked Kate. She is the tallest escort that I have been with. At 5 ft 11 inches (180.34 cm), she is the tallest woman I have had sex with.

In my visits over the last few years to Thailand, I have mostly been with women in the Massage parlors or in a short time room. The massage parlors were the most strict with time during those visits.

I like to keep my watch where I can see it, if no clock is in the room. I also to know when my time is up so I don't have to hurry up and ... ! ;-)

I a freind sms (text message) my phone so I know time. I am not concern some times if it go over time within reason. I will never just get up and leave like a robot on a timer. SOme times my dates do not even take the full time cause the man is already more than happy and has his own appointments to make on time. If you have been as escort for awhile you pretty much know the time anyway.

what I dont like is men who after we have had a good time ask me to stay the rest of the night free and pout and even get angry when I say no.

i just say in my blog 2 i call to help me last week..1 from here...both look at the time too much. lol...next time i call kitty and debkk

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FROM KITTY
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sorry it not personal but I am amazed by this. Most men flying from the USA to Thailand have been on airplane or airports from 23 to 30 hours without a shower. I never will understand why a man wants the girls first impresson of him to be a greasy, stinky, tired out look. A lot of girls will do it and tell you it ok but I know not one girl who likes doing it. I have respect enough to be clean and fresh any time I meet a man for any reason and I cant understand why a man is not the same. Oh my god if the girl met you and looked greasy, smelled of sweat and tired how would you feel?
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I appreciate your valid comments Kitty but you are out of the topic on "Staying to time". Why don't you create a topic about Escorts' experience with clients that are greasy, stinky from perspiration, so tired that are not on top of their performance etc? We will be happy and enlightened to know the views of Escorts on this subject. And, who knows? It may be an eye opener for some Hobbyists.

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