Handling Clients and Escorts, Below Expectations?

We have been discussing here our choices and preferences of the qualities of our Clients and Escorts. Now, how do we handle them in case our expectation fails?

As hobbyist, I was onced pricked (years back) when the Ads and references of a lady faltered and instead, an obnoxious "mamma san" (handler) knocked on my hotel with her unacceptable ward not in that Ad! Another experience on escorts was that, she is the real girl in the pic but not the qualities she posted since she had too many negative traits and attitude opposite her Ad. I just thought sombody might have just made or copied the the Ad for her! For the Escorts, how do you handle Clients below or doesn't match your expectation of all the basic things and qualities or attitudes we are discussing here during the actual encounter?

I have met 2 providers who fell way short of my expectations. I met each one with the intent of going to an amusement park and then to have some private time. The time in public was fine it was when we got to the private time they were way below my expectations. One woman allowed her dog to sleep on the bed, no way I was getting on or in it after that. The second, had so many hang ups that it ended quickly as well. A woman who didn't like 69 or oral, didn't want to be on top and more. So...there are ladies who will be below your expectations, even if their ads states otherwise.

This is always the difficult part as you never know what to expect no matter if it is client/escort, business product/buyer, or a new relationship. Many times I've been excited to buy something (like an iPhone) or go on a date with someone I was interested in and then disappointed because it/he didn't meet my expectations. Though, to be fair, sometimes something/someone exceeds expectations.

The relationship between client and provider is the same at the initial meeting as going out on a first real date (or first time actually sleeping together). I remember times that I was really interested in a guy and excited at the prospect of getting intimate with him....then finding out that we just didn't fit well together sexually. Such things happen sometimes and you'll never know until the moment of expectation comes whether it will meet, exceed, or underwhelm.

Another thread discussed what a GFE was and I found it hard to answer because every person is different and what one GF does is not the same as what another GF is willing to do. And of course if a past BF/GF set the bar really high, it makes it all the more difficult to have your expectations reached with a new one.

I'm not entirely sure, but I had to try the iPhone before I knew whether I liked it or not. And I had to date a boy....in steps....to see if I really wanted to be his GF. It makes sense that it is the same here. Usually at the very beginning you can tell if somebody is an absolute deal breaker and can cancel, but to find out the more subtle characteristics, you have to give it a try! So unless there are extenuating circumstances, you just have to chalk up an underwhelming meeting to experience and thereafter consider it a dead end. I'm not sure what else you can do...unfortunately there are few real guarantees in life even when dealing with regulated businesses.

One thing I would like the ladies to be honnest about is if they have given child birth. In the majority of women one or two children will not affect her if she exercises and will keep her vagina tight. Women who have multiple births and don't exercise tend to be loose and that is way below my expectations. I don't think I have a big cock, maybe average, some say it's long. I don't know as I don't measure myself but, I always aim to get my partner off first before intercourse even occurs and to do that and to find that no matter what, the lady is still loose, is just too much.

So I think women should be upfront about that. I and most men can tell a woman who has had children, especially if she breast fed. That is why women get banana breasts. I understand the desire of a woman to bond with her child and the auto-immune system that is established by doing this but please let me know so I won't let my mouth fall open when you take off your bra.

Men, I don't know about but, I'm positive you ladies could educate me. I show up at the lady's door in the same condition I expect her to be in. I will usually ask the lady if there is any way I should dress when coming to our appointment.

I don't know...am I being picky?

I once met an escort that would'nt allow me to touch her breasts, nipples, or pussy, but did have the audacity to tell me 'maybe next time' as if there was gonna B a next time! Needless to say, I asked her to take her hangups & make like a tree...leave!

Michael. wait until you meet one who tells you that only women can eat her pussy. What the hell are you in the business of fucking men if you won't let them go down on you?

That is one reason I don't see young ladies.

This is all true. Most importantly, there is big difference between escort service and dating service. This website is sexy escort ads not sexy dating ads. So ladies if not into sex activity Better go to other dating websites.

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if a lady advertising some thing and then will not do it then she should be not payed.......simple. I do know some thai girls who offer anal but when the man come she make so many excuses why she cant and I agree that is very wrong.

But I have to admit if a mans breath smell really bad I will avoid kissing him and I dont want his mouth on my body. I dont consider this me not performing my service.

I hate to lose money but some days I am just not in a mood for sex and if I have a client I willl message him by phone and tell him.

some escorts I guess do not want to tell you all their service cause of worry of LE. If they that worried than they in the wrong work.....

If I am a man I would not see an escort unless I can confirm with her what I want and like to happen. With me some men write me a fantasy and I will answer him if I am ok or what we can change. This is really good with my client who want humilitaion and dom.....if he tell me first how far to go then when we meet it is more real cause we dont need to dicuss then. Example....some guy just liek to be talked down too and other really want to be hurt pain alot and anywhere in between.

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