Handling Clients and Escorts, Below Expectations?

Sorry guys, I didn't know how this (my post multiplied) and I can no longer delete the others when I noticed later.

I understand thats the reason why Reviews are so important. We may have all the sweet talks and claims in our ad, but our client who has experience being with us can guarantee that our ad is true or not.

all of my clients look at my backgrounds specially my reviews so they can look if my credentials are all true .i never ask my client to write me a review ,they do that coz they like my company .

yes, this is all true, reviews are the best tools to determine who is compatible with who's preferences however there is a saying that goes, we cant please everybody

Agree with you ladies - BC and Dani and so with Diplomat...Reviews might be the best reference but we are talking here of genuine reviews not the fake ones!

For the escorts, how do we handle clients that we suspect to be too good in the pre-negotiations but later turned out to have annoying behavior during the actual encounter?

Good topic, Dohm. :)

For me, it's always been "hope for the best and expect the worst". I tend to apply it not only with clients but with everything I do. I'm not a negative person, quite the opposite really. I just find it easier to deal with things if I take that approach. It saves me from having lots of disappointments especially since we don't always get what we want no matter how hard we work for it.

Pictures, references and reviews can only do so much. Yes, they set our expectations but people tend to act differently due to several factors.
Pictures- I ask for them because:
1.) It feels more human to have a face to go with a name.
2.) To be brutal about it, I wouldn't want to be seen around with someone fugly (fucking ugly) more so sleep with one. I mean, fine, we're getting paid for what we do but that doesn't mean we can't have a choice.
References/Reviews- I read them or ask for them just so I'd know that the guy I'll be going out with is a safe pair of hands, which is almost always synonymous with not having a problem to deal with regarding the financial side of the commitment.

I suppose the bottom line is if one is not comfortable with the proceedings, one just has to leave. I think both parties have to make it clear to each other that they have the option to terminate the engagement if it's not pleasing to either of them.

I remember some of my clients said they have an adage they stick to before they met me, and that is they "pay" girls to leave. Luckily, they felt it doesn't apply to me.

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A lot of providers advertise indy when they actually have a handler who writes their Bios and ads for them...some even answer their emails. It hurts everyone involved when false info is advertised. Not only is the client disappointed but the provider is either unable to live up to the expected service or not even aware she's expected of it. My advice to clients, make advance contact with the provider via email or phone and communicate so you can get to know her. My advice to providers... you may get a hobbiest with a creative bio but you won't keep him so don't promise what you can't deliver!

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