Why bother if she allows DATY?
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07/21/07 07:26
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Read a number of interviews and got this question.
I believe that providers only want money from us and do not expect or want us to pleasure them. No matter what has been said here or in person this is a job for providers. I understand being turned on and horny and wanting to lick a girl all over, even A LITTLE DATY, but I do not understand all this damn hype. So many guys asking about DATY. Why? My god, they are not into it. Do you get pleasure from doing it? You like licking a hooker's kitty? Why exaclty? The smell, the taste? What? If not to think you are pleasing them. That is a myth that they provide and you're stupid enough to pay for it. Why bother? I have a partner I DATY frequently. I do it for her to pleasure her. Sometimes I'm really into it, but most of the time I am making sure she "gets hers". But if i am paying someone, say $200, why would I waste the time prentending I'm pleasing her. I don't care... |
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07/21/07 07:52
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If you treat an escort like an object, a product to cosume then you're right... but if the girl enjoys the session you may get much better product to consume :)
If a salesgirl is someone who is supposed to sell you something, don't you think that you and she would enjoy the process more if you say her some compliments? You are not supposed to do it, but it may give you both more pleasure from doing ordinary things. And the session is much more intimate process, so it depends much more on the mood and emotional state of both parties. I will suggest that most good providers somewhat enjoy DATY, at least as long as the guy is not too bad at it. Like any job, you are in it for the money, but to be good at it you have to somehow enjoy it. -------------------- |
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07/22/07 14:46
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Ok I'm new here so I have to ask, What is DATY?
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07/22/07 16:08
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quote SlyOne : Ok I'm new here so I have to ask, What is DATY? Dinning at the Y = Cunnilingus -------------------- |
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07/24/07 08:15
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quote mydearme : Read a number of interviews and got this question. I believe that providers only want money from us and do not expect or want us to pleasure them. No matter what has been said here or in person this is a job for providers. I understand being turned on and horny and wanting to lick a girl all over, even A LITTLE DATY, but I do not understand all this damn hype. So many guys asking about DATY. Why? My god, they are not into it. Do you get pleasure from doing it? You like licking a hooker's kitty? Why exaclty? The smell, the taste? What? If not to think you are pleasing them. That is a myth that they provide and you're stupid enough to pay for it. Why bother? I have a partner I DATY frequently. I do it for her to pleasure her. Sometimes I'm really into it, but most of the time I am making sure she "gets hers". But if i am paying someone, say $200, why would I waste the time prentending I'm pleasing her. I don't care... I do DATY. It feels like you are bonding after all. If I feel like it though, I mean it depends who you are with. If you feel the intimacy, why not |
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07/24/07 19:10
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quote INCA07 : quote mydearme : Read a number of interviews and got this question. I believe that providers only want money from us and do not expect or want us to pleasure them. No matter what has been said here or in person this is a job for providers. I understand being turned on and horny and wanting to lick a girl all over, even A LITTLE DATY, but I do not understand all this damn hype. So many guys asking about DATY. Why? My god, they are not into it. Do you get pleasure from doing it? You like licking a hooker's kitty? Why exaclty? The smell, the taste? What? If not to think you are pleasing them. That is a myth that they provide and you're stupid enough to pay for it. Why bother? I have a partner I DATY frequently. I do it for her to pleasure her. Sometimes I'm really into it, but most of the time I am making sure she "gets hers". But if i am paying someone, say $200, why would I waste the time prentending I'm pleasing her. I don't care... I do DATY. It feels like you are bonding after all. If I feel like it though, I mean it depends who you are with. If you feel the intimacy, why not Stuff like this really gets to me. Really gets to me. 1st off you have to realize that we human being belong to the animal classification of mammels, we have senses that seperate of from many other types of life forms. But the main senses that we posses are sight, sound, smell, taste, touch and feel. We are warm blooded and have an automatic breathing response. We have to breathe, we can not control it like some animals can. Animals have always identified their species, predators and prey by smell. Animals use smell to tell when a female of the species is in heat. Many animals not only smell but taste the female to see if she is ready to mate. This goes back to evolution and procreation of the species so, what the hell is wrong with it? If it weren't for these inbred genetic impulses we might not be here. It doesn't hurt, some people enjoy it. I do. Biologically speaking, rimming a person has less bacteria and germs than a mouth contains when kissing. So if you're worried about going down on a woman I'd be more worried about kissing her. When a couple is trying to get pregnant, or is, one of the things docs tell you is no oral sex. No DATY. It is 99.99988% effetive as birth control and can cause a mis-carriage. |
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07/25/07 18:19
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This makes me think of a show I watched on TV where the pizza guys got revenge on non tipping and/or rude customers. They knew the addresses where they were going and some would lick the pizzas or jerk off and rub some cum on it etc...
Luckily if we have rude clients we can choose not to see them again. Myself I am not into daty but do preffer men that are more pleasant and ask what I like and want to make it enjoyable for both. I also believe men are not dumb and can tell if someone over acts and is for real or not. I also may be into BDSM (Not at this Moment) but prefer a man who asks if I am ok or listens to feelings etc... It really is true you get back what you give. As stated by men on other boards by some members. "Treat em with respect boys." :) |
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08/02/07 11:39
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I can only speak for myself, but I LOVE DATY...If hes not into it, thats fine..But I am ALWAYS up for it!
-------------------- Woman: Goodness!! What beautiful diamonds!
Mae West: Goodness had nothing to do with it dearie... |
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08/22/07 00:09
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I don't know about you other guys...but I love to experience a womans body...the feel, the smell, the taste...mmm. If I'm not going to fully experience the woman I'm with I might as well save the money and take care of myself :-)...and by the way ladies...I have a full, soft beard and play trumpet ;-) If you have never experienced a "beard rub" from a trumpet player you don't know what you're missing...and yes, I can "double tongue", "tripple tongue", and "flutter tongue"
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08/22/07 15:53
Surrender |
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Oh my, you must have a job you really do not enjoy, sorry for you. I am a provider, and I actually DO enjoy my job and I definitely enjoy DATY! Saying that every provider doesn't enjoy being pleased as well as pleasing is VERY close minded and sad. If a client doesn't want to perform than that's fine with me because I love to please and turn on a man, that's why I love me job...however, if he does want to in turn go the extra step and please me DATY style, than that's even better! Also... yes, of coarse it is a fetish for lots of guys, and just because you aren't one of them doesn't mean the rest of the gentlemen here don't enjoy turning their dates on. Besides all that, my "clients" often become way more than just that to me, they become friends, and friends help one another out (=
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02/22/09 17:42
Jenna69 |
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I definitely enjoy more than anything, DATY. It drives me crazy.
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02/23/09 00:11
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I've never done DATY or DATO ever (so maybe I'm not the best person to comment on this topic) but I would love to find someone that would be willing to teach me, trying almost every oral sex position together and really learning what gets her hot.
Someone might not get direct pleasure from performing it on another but that is why people came up with the 69 position, an invention that ranks between the wheel and the candle in importance! I'm new to being a client but I do know that there are a lot of stunning ladies (mentally and physically) on this website and others like it that genuinely want to make your deepest desires a reality. If they are going to help me experience the most intense sexual moments of my life then I'd want to give some of that same pleasure back, something more than just cash. -------------------- DixonD
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03/02/09 14:52
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I would just like to say i enjoy DATY, i think its great when someone goes down on you, and then after when they kiss you, i dont mind my own taste wow, but one of the nicest things is when they left there head and smile at you from between your legs, then you just have to grab there head and push them back down again. not all people do it, but those that do enjoy it, and so do I and it sends me crazy to.
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03/02/09 15:31
12pleaseu |
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DATY is very nice when it's done by someone who really wants to do it and really enjoys it very much. I love having it done to me; and I enjoy it even more when it's done to me by someone special that cares for me as well.
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03/03/09 08:42
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I agree with 12pleaseu that DATY is much fun when done by or with someone special... :).
Yes, it is always fun!!! I mean, any action during sex should be enjoyed by each person involved; otherwise, it is a fruitless labour for the one who's not having fun... I think, it is not the question of 'being allowed'. It is all about pleasure! If you like it, do it; and if you don't, why bother or even think about it... ;). -------------------- Lets have sex, lets see how happy it makes;
Let us Kiss, my dear Miss; You feel my dick and let me lick; Let me suck your nipples, see how the Fun tripples; Let me give you a hard fuck!!!! http://hotmalepune.escort-site.com http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?rl=ls&uid=17047187060411186651 |
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